Grad is over.. was ex-h there? My gut feeling said yes when D18 received a bursary and instead of turning toward me for a picture, she looked to the left. D15' s reaction was to look for him. She did not see him.
I was still at ease. After the ceremony, D15 went to the bathroom and i went to the car to bring gifts.. when i walked back in, there he was with the girls. I started shaking but fortunately for me, other parents and grand-parents were stopping to talk to me which kept me separated from him in a way. I received her pictures from her teacher in the hall. Ex-h took this opportunity to adress me:
Ex-h: "Beautiful pictures. How much did this cost?"
Me: "$191.00". I like both so i purchased 2 packages."
I gave him an 8x10 of each picture and made my way inside the cafeteria.
I tried to stay away. D18 was shaking, D15 was uncomfortable and i felt like leaving. After a short while,Ex-h decided to leave. He could see the ackwardness in all of us. Ince he was gone, everybody was talkative and mingleing!
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.