Update from a very old timer

[Sotto]

Thanks for the post above. It's always interesting to read posts from people who come back a good while after BD with an update. I'm four years out from BD now and moving on with my life - I don't hear from XH at all, so I have no idea how he may feel about things.

But it is good to read that your XH has woken up to some of what has happened and is trying to make amends. That is a positive direction for him and for those around him hopefully.

It's good to read that you are thriving and I too feel your advice was spot on. It is so true that you need to pick yourself up, process the huge change, grieve, introspect, move forward and through it. And that takes a good deal of time.

Very best wishes to you. I haven't posted for a while on my own thread, so I will do an update too.

Xx