Said she wants me to stop by for a min at least at party. Lol
Dont. She is trying to bait you dude. She wants you to make an a$$ of yourself in front of Kids, Family, OM. She wants to parade OM in front of you to get a reaction, think about legal man, dont end up with a rest. order over a rash action. Trust me, it doesnt make things easier, and the courts hand them out to men like damn candy on halloween. Play it cool, act like you do not care.
If you went and did something stupid or rash It will be used as part of her smear campaign to justify her Crap actions to those around her. She has likely already been spewing BS about you to family and friends. Have you heard of anything like this happening?
Has she been off and on with you as far as being nice and being cold in the lead up to the breakup and affair?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
Yeah I told her it was best for us to let the dust settles before any of that. I even told her she prolly been bad mouthing me so bad everyone would look at me like I was shif. I ain't falling for her stuff. She thinks everything is fine. Don't know about lawyer, and her partying pics or drug testing. She thinks it's all going to her dumb plan.
Since she left she has been keeping me in loop about kids until it gets in the afternoon time then no phone communication. Sometimes just turned phone off or not answer at all. That's how you know, when that phone is shut off. Been happening since she left. " Oh it died I didn't plug it up". Yeah she's had a phone up her ass since we met.
I do think she may be narc. Thanks Photoshop and FB friends who like every pic posted. She even has her own makeup FB page. She thinks she is ms. America. Don't care about the 260#s
