Originally Posted By: Chris06
Said she wants me to stop by for a min at least at party. Lol


Dont. She is trying to bait you dude. She wants you to make an a$$ of yourself in front of Kids, Family, OM. She wants to parade OM in front of you to get a reaction, think about legal man, dont end up with a rest. order over a rash action. Trust me, it doesnt make things easier, and the courts hand them out to men like damn candy on halloween.
Play it cool, act like you do not care.


If you went and did something stupid or rash It will be used as part of her smear campaign to justify her Crap actions to those around her. She has likely already been spewing BS about you to family and friends. Have you heard of anything like this happening?

Has she been off and on with you as far as being nice and being cold in the lead up to the breakup and affair?


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds