Can I really do this #3

[Dtrmned]

All still up in the air.

And my thoughts would be to not pressure too much about an R, but the knowledge that the "fresh start" she is wanting "could" involve our family.

I am concerned about protecting myself financially if she suddenly decided to move and then bolted.

As far as supporting 2 households, unless L's argue and she can get the prenup thrown out (going to be very expensive) there will be no spousal support. She has been denied disability claims for the 3rd time which I understand is kind of the kiss of death, so the government says she can work. I would of course have child support, but that would not make even a minor dent in supporting her. I realize that is not my problem any longer and don't dwell on it too much. I was just contemplating the idea and if an offer comes, the opportunity. If it turns out to be just for my kids and myself, so be it.

Thanks again Sandi.