Agree with all of the above especially seeing a L

Here is my additional advice

W insisted I leave many times

And every time it cut like a knife

Over time I developed my own script and became externally unflappable even if inside I was dying

My script

If we are getting divorced

I do not want this house

I will leave if that is what we legally agree to

Until that time I refuse to abandon our children



Come up with your own script

And stick to it


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving