Over time I developed my own script and became externally unflappable even if inside I was dying
My script
If we are getting divorced
I do not want this house
I will leave if that is what we legally agree to
Until that time I refuse to abandon our children
Come up with your own script
And stick to it
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving