She's trying to show you the real "her"... she tried the first go round but I guess it didn't sink in. She's monkey-branching again after the honeymoon period is over... I'm guessing this would have happened earlier in first marriage if not for bump in emotion for kid(s)? It seems as though she's looking for someone to make her happy rather than being responsible for it herself.
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016