Can't agree more on that. It's just sometimes very hard to overcome these feelings.

I will be going for a trip for a month with the child. Hope this can give her more space and time, and help me to stop pursing. Should I keep the contact at the minimal when I am away?

H: 31 W:31
M: 6 T: 10
S: 4
BD: 12/2017
In house separation: 12/2017