Can I really do this #3

[Dtrmned]

Thanks Sandi.
Like I mentioned, that is why I ask to get that much clearer perspective and ideas. She is totally frustrated still with the kids this summer invading upon her space (got the 3 texts today how they are driving her crazy). I did not respond other than validate.

VERY valid observation on maybe it is her friend/s pushing her along and making her stand by her decision as well.

As I noticed, it is forward progress from her but nothing even close to any type of heavy lifting.

All superficial in MHO.