Anotherstander, thanks, I'm a little proud of how I handled. Not to mention the fact that I didn't take ownership of her mood. I like your suggestion. I will have to prepare for hearing about the feelings. I'm good at short interactions. I have to armor up for hearing how I am to blame etc. I do want her to learn and feel safe opening up.
Personally, I am reading about emotionally distancing myself from challenges.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
