Can I really do this #3

[Dtrmned]

Looking for opinions on what she is trying to accomplish:

She has done nothing to re-file for D or schedule a mediation appointment.

BUT, she has:

deleted her facebook account and added a new one under her maiden name.

got her own checking account (done months ago and i responded by getting my own as well).

Changed the email and contact reporting address for her ira's and life insurance.

So she is making progress and moving towards detaching and separating, but as far as I can tell, she can re-activate her facebook account at any time, same with the bank (close it) and the ira's could change back in the future as well, so none of these are giant things that can't be immediately undone. Is the reason she is doing this to get a reaction out of me and hopefully I blow up allowing her to justify her decision to D?

Just very curious as I try to look from the outside in but when you are deep in it, it is difficult. Very much value the guidance from those dealing and helping with similar situations.