Originally Posted By: Ginger1

I have got to ask. How were you so convinced your wife would never cheat on you or lie to you when she hid a pregnancy from you?


That's a damn fine question.

I believed the story she told me regarding the pregnancy, all the way up till 6 months ago honestly.
Here is what i was given as an explanation when i found out she was 6 months pregnant in October of 2014, by seeing the bump, not because she told me she was preg.
She wore the right clothes all summer to hide it, friends were suspicious for months. I was blind to what i saw everyday.

"My OB/GYN has had me skipping the placebo at the end of the pill cycle that usually triggers my period, i was having really awful period symptoms so she told me to do that and it would help.
It has helped, but it made it so i don't get my period, So i never noticed missing one! I was never morning sick, or anything, and I just went to the Dr. 2 weeks ago when i became suspicious i might be pregnant, and i was. I have only known for 2 weeks, and ive been scared to tell you!"

I got ANGRY with friends and family when they suggested she knew about it, and didnt tell me. Many people told me it was obvious. I refused to believe them, i believed her. She was my fiance, my rock, the love of my life. She did such a good job wrapping me around her finger, she could not be gainsaid in my mind. I defended her Lie with fervent zealously, How dare anyone speak ill of my sweet, amazing woman? She was incabable of any wrongdoing.
Ginger, THAT is HOW GOOD she is at manipulating people.
It drove my brother insane, he tried to convince me she was up to no good for 4.5 years out of 5 i was with WW.
I pushed him away and alienated him for this (all part of her Triangulation Plan)

Never again will i trust anyone before my blood.


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds