Steve, you mean like the W communicated her intentions to the Ds?
lol, fat chance.

They know somethings up because of the sleeping arrangements, but they, for the most part, stay out of it. No honest discussion has been had, that I am aware of.
In typical fashion, they are probably taking advantage of their freedoms and she is feeling frustrated with that. She would never express this dissatisfaction until an emotional outburst. D19 started taking our extra car and I noticed curb rash on a new tire. I took a pic and sent to W. No commentary, just a pic. She shared her concern to me about it.
D19s boxes are still in the foyer since Saturday after returning from college. I haven't said a word about it. (atypical for me)

Doodle, not sure where that came from but anything's possible.

Perhaps the fact that I am not trying to control Ds has made her realize being a single parent is not all lollipops and rainbows.

As for myself, I am mute in my sardonic amusement.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.