WAW or WW? What should I do to save my MR.

[Wyoung]

Thank you @hongaku so much for the advice. I think the point you made on " You need to find ways to show her how much you respect her as a woman, not just a wife and mother." is super important. But how do I do this? I mean I respect her inside, but if she doesn't feel that way, what I can do to show her? I guess it's silly to ask for specifics, but this process really destroyed a lot of my confidence. I no longer know if I am doing the right or wrong this.