OUCH!!! Just when things were hopeful and progressing so positively, my W stopped by my apartment today to tell me that her lawyer has filed D papers and wondered if I could sign them and the settlement on Monday..She mentioned that she was going to file weeks ago but since our communication opened up, nothing was spoken..I fully listened to her, remained strong,showed empathy (I realize this is very important to you, etc)and acted "as if" I was OK with moving on...All while my heart was racing, a huge black hole ripped through my chest, and devastation/despair ran through my body.. Am I making this too easy? Does she want me to be assertive and Stand Up and Visibly fight for this marriage?Will that push her away and validate her decision? Please help, What do I do now??? So much pain!!!
