It really does sound like you did everything perfectly on that day, Gordie. You had the temptation of pity and you squashed it like a bug. You chose joy, peace, goodness. And all kinds of good things came out of that, including an expectation-free evening with a lady who seemed curious about you. Starting from less than zero is a good thing if you can manage the humility and patience it requires, you were a champ that night, good for you!
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
