Does he knows? I don' t know. If he does, it would by the children.
Can i stop him from cominv here? No because of the children still living here. I must say that he does not come often anymore. S19 and D18 had cars so they had no need for a ride if they wa ted to see him. However, last month, both girls agreed to spend the week-end with him. He then forbide D18 go use her car. He came and got them. We knew it would be pass 8h00 since D15 was working till then so i was not home. D18 texted me once they had left town. When he brings them back, the children text me when they get in the car and keeps me posted of their where abouts until they are home.
This is why he does not tell us when he will be here. For the last few months, he seem to find excuses to make contact and reasons to come to the house. Unfortunately for him, i am not home when it happens.
I beleive he is trying to reconnect but he is failing. He is still the same old bd man just a little nicer SOMETIMES. As long as everyone does as he says.
