Can I really do this #3

[Dtrmned]

Arsh,
Thank you. I know you are struggling as well, so I really appreciate the time in you following and giving feedback. I believe I have said this before, but having a support group that has gone or is going through a the same issues helps greatly. Sometimes it is the thing that gets me through the day, keeps me focused. I have and still am learning so much on here about MR's and mostly about myself. I realize that I did lose my identity for a long time after we had our kids and my W plunged into the major health issues. I just became a husband, caregiver and father. I am not a saint nor a martyr. But, I did lose who I was for a long time as I did what I had to do to make sure everyone else was taken care of. I have made many mistakes along the way and much I would change. All I can change now is what I do from this moment forward.

I do see some positives in what is happening but am being very cautious as to not jump the gun and push everything back to square 1 or further back.

I am very thankful for just the day and a half of almost forced detachment. My head is clearer. Still concerned about going home today, but my head will be right when I get there.

Again, keep your head high and I wish you the best in your issues as well.