Exactky Nicole! That's exactly right! One wrong move and it's over. If I ask her out too soon she will know I want her back and then once that happens I'm expendable to her. That's what I'm trying to avoid here. As long as she's doing the work...ie: intiating contact (or coming out of the castle) then I am keeping control. the minute she realizes I want her back then this becomes a completely different ball game...and kiss the alpha male me goodbye in her eyes.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
