Thanks guys for the encouragement...Looking for some advice today..I've worked really hard at reopening communication and focused on my listening skills..She's been contacting me on an almost daily basis due to her purchasing a new car and in process of buying a house in town so I've been able to keep up the positive dialogue... My question now is since that is over do I go back to detachment and wait for her to contact me, which is what I've been doing the entire time or do I pursue a little bit to keep that communication open..My initial thought is to continue to detach and continue to GAL..Also does GAL, ever get fun or is it something that I do to get my mind off of W...I just really miss us.. Also, could someone please help me with goal setting??I want to keep looking for positive baby steps because when a day comes that she doesn't contact me, it really affects me..I'd appreciate any ideas on goals?
