Today I had to tell H that my mom was depressed and getting medical assistance. He insisted I call her here to help me once he moves out and I kept saying she is not in a condition to help and he wouldnt let go. He wants to get out washing his hands off of the responsibilities. I hadnt told him about my mom in the past because I did not want to make him guilty but today I did. I know making them guilty drives them further away, how much damage would this cause in my sitch?
