JS, I only get positive reactions reading your updates. Your WW is just too confused, if she wanted a mediation appointment she would have set one up. It goes to show the turmoil in her mind. You be as you are, it seems to be working out so far. Even if she freaks out and sets up a mediation appointment just take it in stride. Remember mediation is a choice, you are going there to show her you understand that she is miserable and wants out although you have made sure she knows you dont feel the same. You are not supporting her at the same time you are not in her way. If the mediation does not go in your way you walk out, again a choice. Seems like you suddenly have options here, to DBing all the way!