Thanks everyone. Well as I've said, my plan is already to ask her out. However I'd I am to continue with my picnic, that means I am not to text her. So how can I ask her out without being able to contact her? I have to wait until she suggests hanging out again don't I? If she had texted me to hang out the I would have said something like "Sure let's go to dinner at blah blah and then go see a band at blah blah." Then I would get my answer. However the texts that she's sent recently have not said anything about is getting together. So the opportunity hadn't presented itself. So are you guys saying I should just send her a text and ask her out? Again, this is here the advice confuses me. I'm supposed to be picnicing alone until she decided to come out of the castle and nibble on a sandwich. So that's what I am doing. When exactly am I supposed to ask her out then? When she sends any text at all... even one that doesn't ask to hang out. Example, should I have let her tell me about her dream and then at some point said "Hey what are you doing Friday night? Let's go to dinner and see a band." So this is where the advice gets confusing. Am I supposed to be just eating my sandwiches alone or am I supposed to go knock on the castle door and ask her out? To me those are two different courses of action here. Also V says it's too early for R talk yet others are saying to tell her it's we date or nothing because I'm not interested in friendship. Isn't that essentially the start of R talk? Maybe I'm just dense here but that's my perspective.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
