KML Good response, and I understand it, but without developing self awareness we can't grow. It is what it is.
I didn't wish any of this, but I know that until he realised how much he had hurt the ones he loved - particularly his children, they would never be able to re-build a relationship. But this is now happening. Painful for all parties, but I believe that it is better for my children, and probably my ex husband to have a relationship that is real.
There are no rights and wrongs in this. All our journeys are different.