Happy belated father's day Zues! There really is no greater gift in this world than getting to be a parent, in my personal opinion.
I did read your very thoughtful reply to me, and to be honest, I just didn't know how to answer back. I know why yo feel the way you do.
I guess I do think you were meant to be a husband, as you said. I think I was meant to be a wife. I wish you would give a second chance at the husband thing, but I know why you won't.
Yes, recovery from D is a long process. And honestly, I don't think I felt recovered until the 5 year mark, if I am being totally honest. My issues now are residual issues of divorce that don't go away, but I am pretty far on my recovery, definitely with some scars, no doubt about that.
I am glad life is treating you good, you are enjoying your kids and some fun activities that spark passion in you.
