Originally Posted By: ItHurts
So V, am I to understand that in your opinion she doesn't think I want her back; instead she thinks I already know that she wants ME back?

If so, do you think I should initiate some texts to her then every once in awhile?


IH, I hope you don't take this the wrong way but GOOD GRIEF STOP THIS ARMCHAIR ANALYSIS. Quit coming here and telling us what you think she thinks, and asking us what we think she thinks. NO ONE KNOWS BUT HER. What would an alpha male do in this situation? Ask yourself that, and DO THAT. Here's what I think an alpha male would do- if he is interested in her he would make that clear to her. If she does not reciprocate then he would move on to the next attractive, available woman. It really is as simple as that. Thus my advice- ask her out, tell her you're interested, tell her you don't want to be friends and if she's not interested then you wish her well and will move on with your dating.

And again for any LBS's reading this thread we're not talking about DB'ing here, this is a different situation where some pursuit and stating your wants are in order.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57