Well this guy isn't 6'6" and broad shouldered so at least I'm breaking with THAT part of my rut lol.

As for the age differences- this guy is also two years older than me according to Google so he would be only the second guy I've dated since my divorce who wasn't younger.

The age difference between you and wild girl isn't bad, considering she has teenage kids - puts you at almost the same stage. A 42 year old with a three year old probably wouldn't be a fit.