My little daughters deserve a happy home, help!

[Natash]

Hi Arsh, I know how you feel and how bad it [censored]. If you don't mind I'd like to share my input because I have recently been in your shoes. It was gut wrenching to see my girls cry and question their mom as to why she is leaving, it's something I'll never forget but there is good news. I wish my WW had left sooner. I am in such a better place, the tension is gone and I'm able to detach. I now see after 5 weeks living alone (for the first time in my life) that I will be better off in the end. My relationship with my Daughters is better than ever. They are more relaxed because I am which means they listen better and everyone is in a good mood. When my girls first see me after being with Mom for a few days, they jump onto my arms and give me a big hug. When WW picks them up, they don't hug and neither mom nor child seem excited to see each other. It is sad to see but it shows me what I'm doing is right. I'm not sure what it's like in your home currently but I bet it's similar to what I was dealing with and hope your sitch improves if your spouse does move out. I have had an awakening and realize my self worth. I, as well as you and many others here, deserve better...we deserve a spouse that wants to be with us. Period. If they don't, there will be someone else out there that does. Currently they are not a prize, especially if they are in an A being deceitful liars. My WW seems to be struggling now more than ever, she is still not happy. The problem she thought was me and moving out was supposed to fix that. But it didn't because the problem isn't the other spouse when it comes to a wayward...it is a problem from within them. FYI She too shows signs of bipolar and is depressed. At first I was very concerned but realized I can't control her or expect anything from her so she is on her own on this journey while I'm being the lighthouse back at home.