So V, am I to understand that in your opinion she doesn't think I want her back; instead she thinks I already know that she wants ME back?

If so, do you think I should initiate some texts to her then every once in awhile?

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14