Arsh, that's right. He feels he missed out on life and isn't done yet having fun, so even when he came back the first time I guess he still felt the need to live out his dreams so he left again.
KML, she's had a babysitter and even an Au Pair (live-in nanny) but for various reasons I've never been able to go out at night. Everyone's always watched her during the day while I work. At night I usually drop dead plus in the places where I've lived, sitters want $20 per hour so even a night out will easily cost $100 plus whatever I do out which is too much of a luxury. I did find someone in my new building who I hope to use to go to the local divorce care group. We've been sick so I haven't been able to schedule her yet but I hope to do it soon.
