I'm wondering if I should start initiating some texts to her every once in awhile. That might show that I am interested in talking to her. The only think I don't like about some of the posts here are they all seem predicated on the fact that WAW just assumes I want her back and that she can have me whenever she wants. Thus the "she doesn't want to hurt you again" type remarks. I've tried very hard to play it cool and not act like I want R but it seems you guys think it's a given in WAW's mind anyway. In other words, how can WAW's reason for not pushing more be because she doesn't want to hurt me again? From where I'm standing she shouldn't even be sure if I am open to R at all.

Other than that yes, as I said before, the next time she expresses interest in hanging out we're going out somewhere and I'm having a convo with her about where this is going. Basically telling her we can't sustain a friendship healthily.

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14