Thank you all for the input. I see things seem to be working and am just having difficulty holding back and letting her realize within her own mind the direction she is wanting to go.
It is difficult for me to restrain, I am attempting to do better.
Good thing is I am out of town for work today until tomorrow evening so there is definitely time/space away from each other although briefly.
Being that I am out of town this is a brief response.
Thank you all for everything. Keeping me focused on my path and knowing it is not a quick fix, but rather a journey to a better place for me. IF the opportunity to re-establish and connect with my W towards a better MR all the better.
It sounds to me like you figured out a good way to deal with something that is hard for you. Remove yourself for a situation, breathe, calm down, and think logically or talk to someone else first.
Then act.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
