One thing I need to ask is-I know my W texts my S pretty much daily because he tells me. And he tells me he doesn't respond to her texts. Why has she not reached out to me?
Hi Lonewlf, as a mother she must be feeling pretty guilty about what she has put your S through. She may be angry at you and may have convinced herself you have wronged her but that doesnt make it right by what she is doing to your son. She wants to build a R with him, somehow eventually be in a place where he can either forgive her or make him understand there was no other option left to her. And she doesnt want you to be the bridge of this mother-son relation. I would let her be, it is up to the two of them to decide how they want to keep that relation. You are the stable parent and your son knows that. I am so glad you had a good weekend, happy fathers day to you.
