Originally Posted By: ItHurts
Yes AS, that's still my plan. To get her to go out. However what I want to know is why, why, why is she so peristent in contacting me?


Well I think Artista is spot on- she is hesitant to commit, she wants to rekindle something but she's afraid she'll want to leave you again and she doesn't want to put you through that again. I mean that would be the ultimate cruelty. So she's keeping it "safe" by friendzoning you. She may think you are OK with that, but you are not, and thus my suggestion that you talk to her about it.

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This most recent one sent at 6AM is particularly baffling. I mean sure, we all have nightmares at times, in fact I've had dreams about WAW a few times over recent years but it didn't prompt me to text her when I woke up from the dream and request her to call me. I just told myself it was a dream and moved on with my day.


This is just conjecture on my part but I think she's just really confused about what she wants. Her feelings were speaking to her in the dream and that is furthering her confusion. If you give her the "let's date or seeya" ultimatum and then you go dark on her, that may very well snap her out of this and make her commit. But I think as long as you allow her to friendzone you that it's going to stay there indefinitely.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57