Raw- It great that you get thoughtful presents. I used to spend days and weeks thinking of presents to get my W just to see the expression on her face. I'm happy for you.

hoosjim- Thanks for the words of encouragement. You are right this is the HARDEST thing I have ever done. I often say that being a Dad is the hardest job I have but it is also the BEST job in the world.

One thing I need to ask is-I know my W texts my S pretty much daily because he tells me. And he tells me he doesn't respond to her texts. Why has she not reached out to me? He was failing one subject- With alot of work we have brought that to better than a passing grade. She knows he plays baseball and sax- She has never asked about any that. Speaking for me- If I only saw my S twice for 1 hour each time I would want to know what and how he was doing? If not thru him then I would have to get updates thru my W. Why does she not even care about updates? For the record I have not reached out to her and she has not asked me anything about S. Just a question.


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18