The beginning of a long and painful journey

[Rawpain]

Well I refused to collect the kids for her and have them tonight stating that I had plans and it is not my night. Then she started spitting the venom stating that she has always had to do everything on her own- this is BS I did all the house work the school runs the cooking of teas and the baths and the list goes on. It felt so against what I wanted to do but now I do feel I reaclaimed a part of my balls back.
I think she is going to make things difficult in the future as she holds a grudge and this will be brought up in many future debates.
I have already agreed to look after the kids while she goes on holiday with friends- probably a lie probably with OM- next week and have had to sort all that out. She then brought up that she let me have the kids for Fathers Day on her weekend but then I pointed out that I had done the same for her the previous weekend when she lied about a birthday party that was not a birthday and that her mum was over and she wanted to see the kids wich was a lie too.