Yes AS, that's still my plan. To get her to go out. However what I want to know is why, why, why is she so peristent in contacting me? I mean just when I think she's gone for awhile sure enough some other text comes in. This most recent one sent at 6AM is particularly baffling. I mean sure, we all have nightmares at times, in fact I've had dreams about WAW a few times over recent years but it didn't prompt me to text her when I woke up from the dream and request her to call me. I just told myself it was a dream and moved on with my day.

She also seems to have an insatiable appetite to talk about old memories...almost to an excessive degree, every time we communicate. Not that I mind mind you; we had some great and funny memories...it'd just that I feel like it she was truly over me/our marriage as she seems to want to relay, I don't think she'd be wanting to constantly revisit old times and most certainly wouldn't be dreaming about me... especially the part with the two girls hanging all over me. I'm no professional dream analyst or anything but it seems to me that type of dream isn't one most girls would have about someone they just consider a "friend." I have lady friends and if I happened to dream of them with some other guy I wouldn't think much of it. I certainly wouldn't be mad and want to "kick his butt." I would be indifferent to it. The main thing is she in finding reasons to contact me every few days or so and that is a good thing. Positively identifying her motives for that is the next goal.

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14