Yea, ok. I can def see that now; I meant to also put the "guilt-trip" in my last post. That has been a major MO for her throughout this whole thing. And in the past I would get so worked up, and try to explain myself; and defend myself. But know I can just see it, and it does not effect me at all anymore.

The guilt trip is such a sad card to play, and I am just learning from her that I will never use that in my life in the future.


M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1