Because in spite of everything- the children still don't fully understand the sitch- they are 7, 5 and 2 and whilst we are being really civil with each other- no longer arguing etc. My thinking was that it would be the least damaging to the children until such a time that the decision has been made or the end to the saga is in sight.
M(41), W(37) S (6) D (4) S (2) M-8, T-12 W "I don't love you, I am in love with another man" "I don't know you anymore"
