I have continued to spend time with the children and her by proxy, but I get the feeling she is having her cake and eating it- spending time with me and the kids- until I go home back to my lonely room at my mums- and then she is free to continue to message his etc. and who knows what she gets up to during the day- as she is a SAHM.
So why are you still spending time with her if you dont feel like she is being trustworthy. She asked what your conditions are....is she meeting them? If not, why are you bending over to accommodate her? There are plenty of things you could do with your kids that dont involve her.
