Thanks again 40
I never really used FB until bomb drop and yes I have used it for snooping.
I feel it helped me get the evidence I needed to prove OM but still denied it until the words came out of her mouth-well text so it was pointless.
I feel it will help now and only use msngr to chat to friends.
Reddit is so much better and I feel I get to see parts of the whole world from my sleepy little town.
I forgot about the footy tonight, walking around in my zombified state. I will try and get out for that .
I will stick to the boards too as I know I haven t absorbed all the info I need and really value the support and guidance.
Thanks again.

Last edited by Cadet; 06/18/18 03:34 AM. Reason: restored post

Me=32 W=29
R=12 yrs M=7 yrs
BD 02/18/18
Dd=3 S=6
Other man confirmed 06/10/18