The beginning of a long and painful journey

[Rawpain]

Thanks 40
So it is the temptation I have to try to avoid. I have been out and did have the chance to get down and dirty but just had my dance said thank you to the nice lady and went home.
I used to work in an environment with lots of females and did flirt and feel that this gave me much more confidence when I first met my W and continued to work in that environment but never took any wayward action- it was just fun. I changed Jobs to quite solo role just as my DD was born and looking back I do feel I lost my confidence as I no longer had this boosting me up and maybe this is when I lost my balls.
I feel I need to find this confidence but think I will only get it through being noticed by other woman- I can see this being a slippy slope though especially after a drink but this was never my character before.
I am constantly being told by my friends to go sleeping around to get me over W but I never did sleeping around before and do not intend on doing it now.
I look better than I have looked in years and feel just being noticed will give me more of a boost to get me back to who I used to be.
Do you still I should avoid the bar scene?