Advice for newcomer pre- bomb drop.

[Bern19]

Thanks Sandi,
I will keep practicing that in my mind so Im prepared when the time comes.
Ill work on some questions for you about the specific rules I have questions about.

As for this weekend, thus far, I got home on Friday from work and normally would have sat down and watched tv till dinner, but I knocked out another item on my to do list.
Ill admit Ive been falling behind on getting thinks done, but the last week, Ive been Bob freaking Villa.
I know that Im supposed to be doing these things for me, but with a wife who claims acts of Service as her main love language, its disappointing to see almost no reaction from her about getting some pretty major projects done.
I wasnt expecting a parade, but something wouldve been nice.
I know that im not supposed to be doing these things to impress her, but Ill admit to struggling with that one.

Another one that is getting to me is that she only seems to want to talk to me when she wants something.
Im sure it isnt every time, but she is ok with sitting in the car and not saying a single word to me, but then once we get somewhere she has no problem talking to me about spending money on something.

I dont know, I just feel like Im over analyzing everything and need to work harder on detaching. Im still allowing her too much influence on my attitude.

Tomorrow is Fathers Day, so lets she if she can be nice or if shell remain indifferent.
I think thats the best word for how shes acting towards me currently.

Happy Fathers Day to all the guys out there that are fighting to keep there families together.