Well after 3 months of no verbal contact H called. He sounded like he was just fishing to see what was going on with me. I answered his questions stayed positive thanked him for paying the bills, wished him a happy Father's Day and recommend a movie that I saw.
H wants to talk again after my back procedure as he doesn't want me taken off guard by paperwork so I said okay (most likely divorce paperwork and what he will offer for settlement) . He said he prefers a face to face. I said okay. He wouldn't say the words divorce and struggled like he felt guilty. So I am trying not to read into it but continue to pray he is well and happy and continuing to work on being the best person I can be.. I did bring up the save the date and october wedding for son in laws sister. He said it was very kind and something to think about.
Still getting use to treating him like a old friend any advise would be appreciated.
Last edited by job; 06/16/1805:44 AM. Reason: edited contractions due to glitch
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
