I like your perspective, V... maybe I am confusing forgiveness with letters not to of resentment. I do not really know. But I do believe that I have forgiven her. I have no resentment at least. I never really struggled with it, but I did think long and hard about it. It was not forced, but it was given a lot of consideration. Like I said earlier, I may be confusing forgiveness with letting go of resentment, but the more I think about it, they might be the same thing in my mind...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019