Quote: Do you see getting a lawyer and seeking custody a contradictive move from DBing? I honestly wonder sometimes if people think DBing is acting like a doormat.
I'm not sure if you're stating that it IS a contradiction, or that it SHOULD be done...?
No, I am not saying it is or that it should be a contradiction. I was responding to you talking as if you saw it as a contradiction, according to your statement in the post.
It's similar to when people make statements like, "I don't know if I should stand up for myself or just stick with DBing". It makes me wonder how they see DBing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
It makes me wonder how they see DBing.