Just a Vanilla change 38

[AndrewP]

Good Morning V. Your comment reminded me of a couple of things.

The first was when I made the first few support payments to my ex. I over-thought about why it took her several days after I sent the electronic transfer to accept it. It took a deliberate will to say to myself "the process works - don't fuss about it" to put that behind me. I do admit that I do pay attention to when she picks up the transfer as I get an immediate text and since I'm me, I speculate about what the timing tells me about her life (I believe I'll be posting about that later).

The second and probably more applicable one is from exquisitetobe's thread. Her ex is obvious and deliberate in using money to assert his control and dominance over her. I would expect that you would write to her that these games only work on us if we allow them to.

You have fulfilled your obligations in a legally demonstrable fashion. We could instead have some entertainment speculating on why the G hasn't been able to visit the bank instead.

Perhaps he's recovering from a badly botched scrotox treatment? (Google it - it's a thing)