You Do not have to forgive to let go of resentment. My thoughts are quite straightforward, forgiveness isn't my job. It is between the wayward G and his higher spirit. It's not between me and him. I deal with my stuff and he deals with his.
Some things are unforgivable, truly unforgivable. And to forgive may cause stress to you. Thinking you have to forgive when you struggle with it is going to cause great stress to you.
When you reach the land of Nah and Meh then it doesn't matter. It's the screw you philosophy and go to hell because I don't care.
Cheating lying, scheming and messing with your head is unforgivable. So don't force it. If it's your nature and can do so if it helps you then yes of course.
For those of us who have been abused and betrayed, who have anger, lovely white clean anger, there is no need. I think to let go of bitterness and bile is great and so necessary.
There may be a time of forgiveness for the pathetic. In the meanwhile if you don't want to forgive don't.
I don't hate the G, I just don't forgive him.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
