Please get L advice, you need this soonest. Validating bad behaviour is not appropriate. Do not validate this.
Validation is for feelings not behaviour and for feelings which are appropriate. There is no way this man should get 50% custody and no sane court would permit that with children so young. This WH is trying to cut the cost of his D and his maintenance by saying and doing this. He doesn't want to pay you child support and is after the house.
It is time to get mama bear and fight for your children.
This is evil behaviour and I truly don't like it.
Please get L advice clearly WH has.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW