Sandi,

This post makes a lot of sense to me. But since i still live with my wife and also have 3 kids here, how would i go about letting her go? I can sense in her everything you are saying. And im trying to not give off energy that suggests i need her around. But as i type this, shes back out tonight while i sit alone on my couch wondering what she is up to and whG time she will be home? Tomorrow morning im getting in the gym and hitting it hard. Ty